| | Re: 12 years with kids in bed
At some age - your child may look back and ask herself - WHAT THE HELL WERE MY PARENTS THINKING.
Imagine this. At some future point you divorce. Your grown child is going to wonder if she is the cause. By then she will understand what most married adults do in bed, and will wonder if her presence in your bed disrupted your intimacy and eventually your marriage.
How could you possibly risk having your child "wear" that guilt.
Put your child in her bed where she belongs - and start reaching out to each other.