What made you finally decide to leave your partner/husband?
During a fight recently my partner told me he "doesn't remember anything the counsellor said". I found this hurtful and told him that there is no point in having a relationship with someone who isn't willing to work on our problems. He then explains that he only said it because we were fighting. Why would someone antagonise you like this when they say they want to work on things. We went to a counsellor because we have been fighting a lot about him not initiating discussions to work through our problems and seeming reluctant to get married. We have been engaged since Aug 2011. I am 33 and he is 39 (neither married before).