Originally Posted by firebelly
Okay, so how do I explain to my new partner how to pleasure my clitoris to orgasm with his mouth? I, myself, have never had to use my mouth to bring a woman to orgasm before. I've only ever brought myself to orgasm with my hands (and other toys.) I realize that everyone is a little different ala my other thread on continuing to suck and it may take some trial, error and communication, but I'm curious to hear how men who are successful at bringing their W to orgasm during cunnilingus would explain what they are doing. Partners who have been successful with me before never explained to me exactly what they were doing with their mouths / tongues.
And ladies - if you have been successful at verbally getting a guy to bring you to orgasm with his mouth, what did you say and how did you say it?
well what works for me might not work for you
although I could come every time it's not just the oral stimulation that does the trick. A thumb and a couple of fingers in the mix never hurt anyone and a gentle graze of the teeth (or perhaps not so gentle
). And grab his head and direct him
Careful not to crush it with your thighs when he hits the spot though