drax

Hi Martino/everyone
This is my first message here, and i am deeply touched by your mail. Isn't it funny how couples are matched up in marriages sometimes. One might be tempted to think that maybe your wife is having emotional affair with someone else in her head, thereby making her rigid and unpassionate towards you OR maybe it is just her nature. IF you will like to drive home the point that you are really fed up, you need to show it via your action(s) to yourself i.e let her realise that you are beginning to think of having an affair of your own. Do this by changing the way you dress, have a new good looking haircut, polish your shoes, use nice smelling men perfumes, and try as hard as you can to play her in her own games i.e dont show her any emotions as well even when she plans to be nice to you. Express to her that if you are emotionless as she is, then your marriage will not be a very happy one. REMEMBER; whatever you do, always be there for your son. Your wife cannot eat her cake and have it at the same time. You have to be serious when you do this, and you will see that she might change and be more affectionate.
Wish you all the best mate