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mollymalone · 05-12-2008, 08:43 AM

hi
i don't want to sound all doom and gloom and i know you wouldn't want to appear like a jealous wife over nothing.i have been in exactly the same boat as you.my husband assured me that his co-worker was just a friend, and that text were all to do with work.despite this it made me feel uncomfortable.

it turns out she was having marriage problems as were me and my husband at the time, then the texts went from being the odd one i saw on his phone, to texting behind my back.

eventually my husband admitted that even though nothing inappropriate happened he stopped all contact with her, took her number off his phone and told her he didn't want to text anymore,explaining he needed to give me his time.my husband says now he should have been texting me,not her.it was part of the reason our marriage nearly failed.if left unchecked it would have been an emotional affair.

maybe you could say to your husband how he would feel if he found out a male he did not know started texting you each day?

i hope for your sake it turns out to be totally innocent,but as previous poster said,you are his wife and if you say you feel unhappy about it,he should stop.

05-12-2008, 08:43 AM	#6 (permalink)
mollymalone Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 4	Re: Hubby texting co-worker.... hi i don't want to sound all doom and gloom and i know you wouldn't want to appear like a jealous wife over nothing.i have been in exactly the same boat as you.my husband assured me that his co-worker was just a friend, and that text were all to do with work.despite this it made me feel uncomfortable. it turns out she was having marriage problems as were me and my husband at the time, then the texts went from being the odd one i saw on his phone, to texting behind my back. eventually my husband admitted that even though nothing inappropriate happened he stopped all contact with her, took her number off his phone and told her he didn't want to text anymore,explaining he needed to give me his time.my husband says now he should have been texting me,not her.it was part of the reason our marriage nearly failed.if left unchecked it would have been an emotional affair. maybe you could say to your husband how he would feel if he found out a male he did not know started texting you each day? i hope for your sake it turns out to be totally innocent,but as previous poster said,you are his wife and if you say you feel unhappy about it,he should stop.