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Chopblock · 05-12-2008, 10:11 AM

***"First of all, if it bothers you, your husband should stop..period."

I think this is a gross oversimplification -- no situation is that cut and dry. You'd feel pretty bad if he took the same no-nonsense hard-line stance against something YOU thought was reasonable.

***"I feel if it was me he would not like it at all."

In my experience, this is ALWAYS one of the BEST ways to judge someone's true feelings on a situation. You say he said it wouldn't bother him, but is that really true? Only one way to find out.

Another great test is whether or not you can see the messages, though that can go either way. If he lets you see what he is saying, its much less likely anything bad is going on.

05-12-2008, 10:11 AM	#8 (permalink)
Chopblock Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 213	Re: Hubby texting co-worker.... *"First of all, if it bothers you, your husband should stop..period." I think this is a gross oversimplification -- no situation is that cut and dry. You'd feel pretty bad if he took the same no-nonsense hard-line stance against something YOU thought was reasonable. *"I feel if it was me he would not like it at all." In my experience, this is ALWAYS one of the BEST ways to judge someone's true feelings on a situation. You say he said it wouldn't bother him, but is that really true? Only one way to find out. Another great test is whether or not you can see the messages, though that can go either way. If he lets you see what he is saying, its much less likely anything bad is going on.