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Amplexor · 05-12-2008, 08:22 AM

Lostluv

I agree there is nothing wrong with you. But I do see there are some strong points in your marriage. I would encourage you both to seek counsel to see if things can be salvaged. If he started doting on you after he realized the marriage was in trouble, that is a common reaction from a spouse when they fear the relationship might end. It is also a common mistake. One that I made myself. If the emotional support comes on in a rush you may not be ready to accept it all. If you wish to work on the marriage, gently tell him you need some space and that the heavy attention makes you uncomfortable at this time. Let him know things need to take a natural course and give it time for you both.

05-12-2008, 08:22 AM	#3 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 423	Re: Stalemate Lostluv I agree there is nothing wrong with you. But I do see there are some strong points in your marriage. I would encourage you both to seek counsel to see if things can be salvaged. If he started doting on you after he realized the marriage was in trouble, that is a common reaction from a spouse when they fear the relationship might end. It is also a common mistake. One that I made myself. If the emotional support comes on in a rush you may not be ready to accept it all. If you wish to work on the marriage, gently tell him you need some space and that the heavy attention makes you uncomfortable at this time. Let him know things need to take a natural course and give it time for you both. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.