| | I love giving oral for 10-15 minutes. I hate giving oral for any longer.
I understand why some women would rather not give long bjs until the finish, because it seems boring and like a lot of work. I however, love giving oral to my wife. In fact, I could think about doing it all day, but after about 10 to 15 minutes my jaw (tmj) pops and gets really sore. I also get extremely bored and begin to lose my erection. My wife usually takes 30-45 minutes to orgasm with oral, while only 5 minutes with a wand/toy. I do not want to be selfish so I will continue to give oral, but after about 30-45 minutes, sometimes she will stop and ask for the wand. After 15 seconds of the wand, she cums. I understand this may be because I am throwing her off and human, but really? I work 45 minutes straight and you give the wand all the credit?
Anyway, for the first half of the marriage we did not have any toys or the wand, so each night I would get my wife off through oral sex, which normally would take 30 to 45 minutes. And although I loved getting her off, it became a hard to stay focused. I think the wand has gotten both of us lazy and it's almost as, she really doesn't want to get herself the slow work up anymore, but just that quick fix. Like a herion addict. I have became her enabler, because after about 10 minutes, I will look up and say you want your toy?
I wrote all that, to say, I understand why a women may love to give oral to her husband, but not finish him. I have became the same way with my wife. I want to see it, smell it, taste it, lick it, hear her moan, then watch her cum (but not after laying there for 45 minutes). I suppose this is why I am so careful with my wife and do not ask her to "finish" often. I enjoy the act, but doing it for too long takes the enjoyment out of it.
Anyone else experience this?