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Amplexor · 05-12-2008, 08:29 AM

Almeron

This can be salvaged but it will take time. You can’t fix this in a hurry and the two of you will need to work together to recapture your mutual love. She can’t reconnect with you until she ends the relationship with TOM. Even though it is an emotional affair at this time, it is damaging to your marriage and her view of you. I know this first hand as I’ve lived it myself. Communicate with her and find out what she feels she is missing in the relationship. That she feels guilt is a good sign. She cares for you and has a loyalty to you and your marriage. Work on your mutual needs and don’t over react. Doting on her will just push her further away. Good luck.

05-12-2008, 08:29 AM	#3 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 367	Re: I don't want it to be over Almeron This can be salvaged but it will take time. You can’t fix this in a hurry and the two of you will need to work together to recapture your mutual love. She can’t reconnect with you until she ends the relationship with TOM. Even though it is an emotional affair at this time, it is damaging to your marriage and her view of you. I know this first hand as I’ve lived it myself. Communicate with her and find out what she feels she is missing in the relationship. That she feels guilt is a good sign. She cares for you and has a loyalty to you and your marriage. Work on your mutual needs and don’t over react. Doting on her will just push her further away. Good luck. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.