TheMrs1982

I thank you all for providing your insight, I have discussed it further with him and explained to him again why i'm so bothered. I do feel that part of it is because it's a female, and another part is that it does take away from the time we usually spend together.
What I decided to do is try to invole myself in the same kind of activity of texting and see exactly how he would respond if I were doing this during the time we usually spend together, and sure enough he was like "what'cha doing, who are you texting". Just wanted to give him a taste of his own medicine, but he did agree to try to cool it down if he sees that it's going in to our quality time we spend together... and I have agreed to not be snoopy and jealous over him texting a friend. I do agree with sweetp101 that I would not want him to stop doing something as far as communicating with friend just because I have a problem with it and vice versa. I don't think it's to the point of him getting emotional with this girl, but I did warn him about opening up those "doors".