Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Having a hard time coping with not having more children.

lovesherman · 06-12-2012, 12:00 PM

He may be worried about finances, and about losing your attention if you bury yourself in motherhood. If money is the issue, let him know how budget conscious you are.

Would you be willing to compromise with 3 children? Keep talking to him about this, and be patient with him. Let him know that you want this important decision to be agreeable to both of you. Make sure that you address his concerns, and do not pressure him with angry, emotional arguments that will make him feel trapped.

06-12-2012, 12:00 PM	#14 (permalink)
lovesherman Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 2,055	Re: Having a hard time coping with not having more children. He may be worried about finances, and about losing your attention if you bury yourself in motherhood. If money is the issue, let him know how budget conscious you are. Would you be willing to compromise with 3 children? Keep talking to him about this, and be patient with him. Let him know that you want this important decision to be agreeable to both of you. Make sure that you address his concerns, and do not pressure him with angry, emotional arguments that will make him feel trapped.