Originally Posted by AFEH
Lotsoflove, for a Man, old issues in the way you do them are exceedingly wounding. Keep wounding him and he will live without you no matter how much he loves you.
You know you hurt him. You know that. Itís a madness.
I know, it is unfair. I think I was telling myself "I am upset and angry and I have every right to be", but maybe deep down maybe I was trying to hurt him because I was hurt or fooling myself into thinking I could prevent such behavior by reminding him that I hadn't forgotten
I have gained clarity from this and I am committed to moving forward positively. Maybe he just needs more time to see that I really over the past and wont be bringing it up.