Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Wife had an emotional affair and I can't move on

lamaga · 06-12-2012, 06:14 PM

Okay, Galway, buck up because I am going to speak truth to you.

Nineteen days of texting and there was no physical contact. And you are willing to lose your wife and your family over this?

STOP THAT. You are being silly. Now, others will come onto here and talk to you about how to monitor her for the rest of time so that this never happens again, and that's fine, but the fact is?

NOTHING HAPPENED. Get over it. Go hug her and be glad that she is still with you. This is as big a deal as you choose to make it. Husbands are dealing every day with wives dying, wives literally in their beds with other men, wives deciding they are gay...each and every one of them would trade places with you in a heartbeat.

06-12-2012, 06:14 PM	#2 (permalink)
lamaga Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: Austin TX Posts: 2,543	Re: Wife had an emotional affair and I can't move on Okay, Galway, buck up because I am going to speak truth to you. Nineteen days of texting and there was no physical contact. And you are willing to lose your wife and your family over this? STOP THAT. You are being silly. Now, others will come onto here and talk to you about how to monitor her for the rest of time so that this never happens again, and that's fine, but the fact is? NOTHING HAPPENED. Get over it. Go hug her and be glad that she is still with you. This is as big a deal as you choose to make it. Husbands are dealing every day with wives dying, wives literally in their beds with other men, wives deciding they are gay...each and every one of them would trade places with you in a heartbeat.