Originally Posted by Galway

I am 40 and my wife is 33 we have a 7 and 4 ys old boys. We have been married for nine years and together for 13.

We work seperate schedules and there is nothing that can be done about it. Unfortunately, my wife was texting and talking on the phone with another married man. This went on for 19 days. They would text all time during the day and often in fron of me with me being oblivious. He was telling her she was beautiful and he started describing what he would do to her sexually. During the texting, she never met him or saw him anywhere. He kept trying, but it never happened. On the day that they were going to meet, I caught her and everything stopped. I confronted him and threatened to tell his wife.

My wife has appologized and admitted that she was confused and was unsure if she loved me when this was going on. It has been two months and I can not let it go. She has been affectionate to me and swears that she will never make another mistake. Any suggestions?