| | Re: Hysterical Bonding and its significance
I can tell you that it is intense, frequent and possibly experimental. It is like you desire this person to desire you with a passion. However, I will also tell you that for me it became a need. I went from barely having sex with my H, due to lack of time together and his preference for porn to having sex at least once a day...mostly twice a day and BJ's and hand jobs when I was on my period. I wanted him to want me. I needed him to want me. I wanted him and the connection was amazing, but I started to be concerned about my motives. 7 or 8 months in if he didnt approach me I became unsettled and initiated it myself. I initiated alot regardless, but this was more like two horny teenagers. I dont know what I am trying to say other than it is intense and a wonderful way to connect and feel loved and reassured, but make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. Value yourself and keep yourself safe mentally and physically.