| | Re: separate bedrooms
The fact that you so easily relinquish your bed at your wife's command is the core of your problem.
The few times my wife has been pissed enough to sleep away from me she`s the one who has hit the couch.
She wouldn`t even dream of telling me to get out of my own bed because she knows the reaction she`d get.
This works both ways, if I don`t want to be near her I go hit the couch.
If you just want to be away from someone you get away from them.
Telling them to get away from you sounds like more of a control issue than an anger issue.
When you allow her to control you in this way she will lose respect for you and that`s where the real damage begins.