happilymarried67

I have to agree with Molly on that one. She is not ready for a serious relationship anymore. I have been in love with my husband for over 11 years and I don't need to find my old boyfriends to find out who I am because I am not the same person as I was. My husband and family make me who I am today.. Smothering her and trying to get her help for what seems to be her "finding herself" isn't going to make it happen. You can lead the horse to water but you cannot make it drink. If she wants this relationship to work with you than she has to be willing to make it work. Her heart just doesn't seem to be with it. The harder you try to bring her back the worse it will only get. Give her some space, if she really wants to be with you the space will help her sort through who own emotions.

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