confusedinTX

I have been in a situation kind of like yours. I found out my husband had an ad for himself on adultfriendfinder. He said he was single and looking but ok with casual sex. I think the first thing that crossed my mind was to find the first guy I could and sleep with him though this was quick to pass. The next was to create an account and see if he would respond to someone. In the end I decided against that as well. Playing games in a relationship tends to do more harm then good. I confronted him and I think that was the right course of action. You acting like you are cheating might drive her into the arms of someone else again. I think the other persons advise of being good to yourself is the best idea. By not needing her to feel good might just be the wake up call she needs. Whatever you decide I hope it works out for you.