Re: I don't want it to be over
Thanks for the replies. We both know that the two of us had big comunication problems, although they were never really problems before, it's become more apparent now. The both of us have recently opened up alot to eachother and our friends, i have shared how i felt through out this whole thing, and she is working on expressing some pretty painful emotions. She is very angry with herself right now, and very depressed. I tell her every day that she did not do this on purpose, she did not set out to hurt me or herself, and that she is a good person. It's frustrating sometimes because we will go out to walk or shop around and she will be happier, but sometimes will just fall back into being very depressed.
I think, slowly we can work through this, and i've told her that i'll be with her every step of the way.
I sudgested that she look into help forums and talk to people with similar feelings, and she agreed that she would, i think it can really help her understand just what she's feeling and listen to how others have done. What part of these (or other) forums do you think my wife should look into?
It's 6:00 in the morning here and i'm off to work so i appologize for any gibberish.
Thanks again
Al
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