TheMrs1982

Pigpen, I understand what you are saying. I would do the same also. I probably have done the same with sharing and he has too. But I will not ask him to share with me, I shouldn't have to. I think it's something that should be done automatically. Because I respect his privacy, I will not read his messages unless he ask me too. Anyway he tells me what they are talking about, that's enough for me. All I want is him to stop texting during our time, that's not a lot to ask.
Right now he whenever he gets a text he is now telling me who it's from and what it's about. And now I'm like OMG, what is happening that he is feeling obligated to tell me why someone is texting me. I get it people like texting you, ok but just don't do it during my time with you. They can wait. I say they now because he saids that it's not just the one young lady, but it's other people from the workplace bothering him on his weekend off. I would tell them if it's an emergency leave me a voicemail, but I think he is enjoying that they are texting him. Be feels he's being a good manager by being there for his team... Whatever! I told him I'm here, I've been here, but if he gonna let them start to control his time... i'm gonna start doing my own thing during our time.