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I guess I would ned more details of exactly what she is doing to not care about her appearance. If she is at home all day cleaning or working.... it's one thing and another thing if she is going to work in wrinkled clothing and not brushing her hair.

Does she have nice clothing?
Do you help her buy them? womens clothing can be sooooo expensive. Maybe you can give her money to get her hair and nails done and buy something new a few times a month.