Originally Posted by Bottled Up
This is exactly why if my wife ever wants to get a personal trainer in the future, I will insist on same-gender trainers only.
Allowing your spouse to do physical routines with an opposite-gender "body expert" is just straight up foolish. Why would you want your spouse spending hot, sweaty, physical time with someone who has a superior body to yours????
And it really goes way beyond a trainer being fit. But that does matter a lot. He is a hot guy that pays attention to her. It is a confident man mentoring the woman and praising her continually. She gets his full attention. She gets to tweak her clothing to add to her enjoyment and his for this attention.
There is touching. It can often be very inappropriate. It does not have to be of course. But she will start wanting in her mind for that touch to linger longer and stray a bit. There are ways she can encourage this. i.e. she can trace a part of her body and talk about how sore it is or whatever or that she really felt that movement or that she really like the way her @$$ looks now. Gigggle, giggle. He can pickup on that cue by tracing along those muscles. Heck just supporting a womans neck postition gently with his hands can be very erotic while being plausible.
It is a seduction over time. A breaking down of boundaries. It is PUA. Sometimes it is the woman who is the ones pursuing this. He can always massage her a bit as well to warmup. This allows the PT to tell her how hot and sexy she is. So not just encouragement but a level of banter that is beyond flirting. The woman at some point will respond by praising the trainer and how hot he is. She may then staet compating him to her husband and telling him who superior he is to her husband. That is damage enough for the PT to hear but the ral damage is the affirmations she is making in her own mind.
If this was in an open gym it would be a little harder to do this stuff as opposed in a woman's home. Especially when half the fun is humiliating the husband.