Zanna

Don't bother contacting the OM. He's not worth it.


My WH told me I could contact OW if I wanted to confirm what he said about when the A started, that he was the one to end it, etc. I looked at him like he was insane and told him I am not talking to some Skank about MY marriage. Some immoral wh0re, that sleeps with married men, was not going to get the satisfaction of a phone call from me and no way was I going to lower myself to ask her questions about my marriage. He brought it up many times in the weeks following and I don't know if he had some sick fantasy about two women fighting over him because he knows I don't back down from confrontation but I was having none of it. I told him I had no desire to "confirm" anything with her and was not going to be listening to a word that came out of her lying mouth.


Although, admittedly I did send her an email when she began harassing me via email but that's because the trash had the nerve to involve my kids. My email was factual and to the point and I didn't engage in name calling, aside from telling her behaviour regarding involving our kids was despicable.

Anyway, I don't really think OM or OW's are worth it. They deserve to be treated like they are insignificant trash.