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Old 05-13-2008, 01:33 PM   #1 (permalink)
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My wife and I have been together for eight years. The 19th will be our sixth year of marriage. I would say we were both experienced people having been in relationships before. I never had a woman respond to me the way my wife has. It would seem she would do anything to please me. I really felt like she was crazy about me. What can I say I use to feel very loved. In the past I was not always the best giver. I had some problems with medication addiction (Something she knew about from the start, and something that is over now) that would leave me withdrawn or angry/insecure. I have been giving my self over to her. Mind, body and soul. I am so in love with my wife, she is amazing to me and our children. She is one of those woman who's figure was not affected by having children and she seems to get more beautiful to me as time goes by. Our love life has really slowed down the past few years. When ever I am being affectionate I feel as if she will start a fight or make an excuse so she does not have to be intimate. She does not seem as turned on as she use to before and during. She blames that on worrying if our children will wake up.
I consider my self to be an intuitive person. It is something in her eyes. She almost looks annoyed with me at times. I have a bad feeling she might like another. is there any signs I can look for, or someone could suggest to help me figure out why she has been distant. I don't want to loose her. I just want that level of love back. Could it be that as she grows older (Only 28) that she is maturing and falling out of love with me (32)? I am bad at this and not the type of guy to write in. I'm just worried.

Thanks in advance
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