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swedish · 05-13-2008, 01:48 PM

Could it be that she is holding resentment of some sort? Overwhelmed with being a wife and mother and maybe feeling unsupported in some ways? I would suggest reading The 5 Love Languages by Chapman. It may give you some insight as to why she is feeling distant/disconnected from you.

If you do feel it may be someone else, has she talked about another man (ie a guy from work she seems to talk about a lot) or does she seem different spending more time on herself before leaving the house? Going out more often than normal where you question what she's doing? If you don't see clear signs here, it may well just be that the two of you need to re-connect.

05-13-2008, 01:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
swedish Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Near Chicago Posts: 1,391	Re: Confussed. Could it be that she is holding resentment of some sort? Overwhelmed with being a wife and mother and maybe feeling unsupported in some ways? I would suggest reading The 5 Love Languages by Chapman. It may give you some insight as to why she is feeling distant/disconnected from you. If you do feel it may be someone else, has she talked about another man (ie a guy from work she seems to talk about a lot) or does she seem different spending more time on herself before leaving the house? Going out more often than normal where you question what she's doing? If you don't see clear signs here, it may well just be that the two of you need to re-connect.