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Amplexor · 05-13-2008, 10:55 AM

Understood but I would still encourage counseling. Spouses stay in trouble marriages under two sets of reasons. Emotional and logical. Emotional would include loyalty and caring feelings which you have for your husband. Logical include for the good of the kids, financial and the like. If he has always doted and you can’t get him to stop then I see counseling to be a good avenue. If he can discontinue the behaviors that make you uncomfortable you have a better chance to recover your deeper feelings for him. It is for him as well as you. I hope you can give things a chance to recover. 14 years is a long relationship, I hope you can find the tools to improve it for you both. Bless.

05-13-2008, 10:55 AM	#5 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 511	Re: Stalemate Understood but I would still encourage counseling. Spouses stay in trouble marriages under two sets of reasons. Emotional and logical. Emotional would include loyalty and caring feelings which you have for your husband. Logical include for the good of the kids, financial and the like. If he has always doted and you can’t get him to stop then I see counseling to be a good avenue. If he can discontinue the behaviors that make you uncomfortable you have a better chance to recover your deeper feelings for him. It is for him as well as you. I hope you can give things a chance to recover. 14 years is a long relationship, I hope you can find the tools to improve it for you both. Bless. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.