You cheated and you broke her. Own it. Make amends. Dump your sleazy tramps and commit. If you can't, then leave the marriage so your wife can find someone who loves her enough to care.
"He who accepts evil without protesting against it is really cooperating with it." -Martin Luther King, Jr.
"“We first crush people to the earth, & then claim the right of trampling on them forever, because they are prostrate." -Lydia Maria Child.