river rat

WhiteMouse, when I was trying to work my way through the depression following my wife's affair, I saw a counselor, who by the way, was an evangelical minister in his former life; he asked me to read Ecclesiastes. In a subsequent session, he said to me, "The real question asked in Ecclesiastes is, Can you live with the uncertainty?" If you can get your mind around that one, you'll be a long way down the road to healing.