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Old 06-15-2012, 11:28 PM   #12 (permalink)
Reggiethelion
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Default Re: At an impasse over spouse spending time with opposite sex colleague.

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Originally Posted by Entropy3000 View Post

Have you guys done any boundary setting as it pertains to the opposite sex? His Needs Her Needs?

I see the biggest problem is that you went along with this from the beginning. The time to have said no to this was before it started.

It sounds to me like you feel you have no veto power here. Is that how you see it?
I didn't go along with it from the beginning, it was supposed to be a running group but all the other people dropped out/couldn't keep up. I have no veto power, I tried very directly, and she has decided this is what she is doing. I am not at the point where I am going to leave over this, but I don't feel like I have veto power at this point, no.
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