| | Re: Is he being disrepectful
If I remember correctly, you two had agreed to an open-marriage. It's hard to call his actions 'disrespectful' in that dynamic.
Of course he's being disrespectful, but he doesn't see it that way and is convinced that you don't see it that way either (open marriage = open marriage)
I think you need to pull away from him as much as possible. There's no incentive for him in respecting or pursuing you at this point.
I'm sorry you're going through this.