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Old 05-13-2008, 11:11 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Swedish, thanks again. In answer to a prior question, it is a full blown affair. My W claims that nothing happened until she was sure that the marriage was over. She is moving out this weekend. We told my 9 year old S last night. The OM works at my S's school, but luckily he had surgery and will be out the rest of the year. He had been going up to my S and having talks with him every day at school. I believe trying to make inroads towards his affection. It hurt to hear every day, but I did take the high road. I supported my W during both talks. I did share with my D, that while I thought he was a nice man, I didn't currently have much respect for him.
Neither would I, While he was undermining your marriage he was trying to win one of your kids over? I wonder how the school system would look at that if they had codes of conduct?

But kudos for taking the high road and being civil as well as the nice guy here. It really shows how good your character is.

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