| | Re: We just need money.
Can you tell us a bit more about your marriage. How long have you been married? Do you have chlidren? Do you work outside the home?
Since you cannot afford marriage counseling there are still things you can do.
Take a look at the links in my signature block below for building a passionate marriage... read and work on those books together. They can really help. Personally I think that they are better than most marriage counselors.
There is also a good book, "Divorce Bustings".
Now about dancing. There are in many places dance clubs that cost little to nothing. For example there is a Univerisity where I live. They have a dance club. It is little to nothing to join the club. It meets once a week. It's a blast.