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There seems to be quite a bit going on here. Maybe he was desperate to have you go with him because he thought you would revenge cheat on him while he was gone. Did you ever settle things with the MIL? I remember you had issues with the unhealthy food, and the general spoiling of your kids by her.
Sex is a major part of any healthy adult relationship. You two need to address this issue in MC as soon as you are able. He should be going out of his way to make sure your needs are fulfilled. He was the one that stepped out on your marriage, right? He certainly should have no problems with you initiating, or with you using toys by yourself, or asking him to use toys on you. Toys are not a replacement for a partner, and any man that is threatened by a toy in the bedroom has deeper issues with insecurity to deal with. I posted in your other thread about toys, feel free to PM if you have any other questions on that topic.