Originally Posted by daisygirl 41
You're hurt because you are feeling rejected again and this will stir up all the feelings from the A.
Does he know how this rejection makes you feel?
I know know it's difficult but you really need to tell him how his rejection makes you feel.
It must be very hurtful for you knowing. That his A was so sexual when he isn't giving to you. This Definately needs to be addressed in MC.
I feel for you hon. I take rejection very personally and it hurts to be turned down in this way.
Hugs to you
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My Husband just left to drive out of state. He wanted to know why I didn't sleep and night and why I cried all night. I told him he got what he needed last night and I shouldn't have worn the sexy underwear I'm wearing. I said we didn't get to do what I needed last night or before he left and now he's going to be gone for months. He said he had too much anxiety cause he didn't want to go or else we would have.
I'm so sad this time that he's leaving like no other time. Part of it is probably that I want to be with him in the car for the drive to the place I love. Before our seperation we didn't really do any traveling in the car just me and him, now it's a special time.
I'm so unbelievable sad that I may not even do what I had planned today. I was going to take the kids swimming for a really good part of the day, bringing lunch and snacks for them Posted via Mobile Device