livelaughlovenow

Wanting your spouse to tell you you are attractive is not shallow.... clearly she is not over the fact you cheated before marriage, I think you need to ask her forgiveness, and as part of that, tell her forgiveness means not bringing it up again. She has to let it go. How long ago waas it? She did decide to marry you after that? If she likes comments, then she likes comments, some people like that, some people like physical touch (love languages are different) but I think that you have some resentment because she keeps bringing this up... no doubt and totally understandable. And she needs to let it go. Do something ritualistic, burn something, write it down and burn it together... but she has to forgive you to be able to move on, and accept your compliments fully.....