Originally Posted by happilymarried67

Counceling for all of you that is my comment. If it is abusive you and your mother and siblings should not be in that home until your father gets counceling and has overcome his anger issues. Same with the 15 year old brother who seems to be following your dad. Sounds like there has been more abuse there that you aren't mentioning. It doesn't matter who did what at this point it just seems to be very toxic for all of you. You guys need to seek some help to get the family back on track. No one should stay in a marriage because of the children in an abusive relationship. Your mom has to stand on her own two feet and keep her children safe. If your 15 year old brother is hitting his 3 year old sister then that is a big, big problem. She is only 3. He needs help with anger too and counceling. Good luck--