Originally Posted by bandit.45
Your wife is now feeling the full consequences of the Great Circle of Dumbassedness.
How are the mind movies? Are you holding up, getting any counseling?
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The images have gotten less....and my wife and I have been intimate....one time I had to stop in the middle and walk out....she just laid there and cried because she knew why I stopped and walked out...without me saying why.
For the most part, the intimacy between us is better and there are times she has come on to me and I have to tell her I am not in a good place for it. She told me the other day that she will be there for me in any capacity I need and when I want to be intimate she will be understanding.
She has definitely come to understand what she did.....completely. She and I are going to counseling together and separately. She has been happier than I remember. I have gotten some issues resolved and the expose' of the affair definitely helped that along.
One day at a time.