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Old 05-14-2008, 01:08 AM   #1 (permalink)
SFrost
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Default Newly Wed, please help!

I'm new, so first I would like to say hi. Okay, I have been married less than a year and I feel like I have some major issues in my marriage. They have been going on for many months and I just don't know what to do.
Here is my first issue. My husband and I hardly ever have sex. I just don't want to. I have no clue why or exactly when it began. Now I feel like a terrible wife. Really, I don't even like to be touched or kissed. I am aware of the behavior and I know that it is not good for the marriage. So...what do I do?
My next issue is that we have just moved and he is starting a new job. I am happy for him. It is a great position and he deserves this job. But they want him to work seven days a week! All I can think is when will I ever see my husband? He'll be too tired to go out. We will wind up leading separate lives. That is not what I want. (I also don't want him to get burnt out.) I know it is what he has to do in order to get in good and excel in his career. But I feel so alone. I am working on getting a job but right now all I do is sit at home all day...alone. I am terrible at making friends. I feel trapped. I ride horses but until I get a job I can't afford to get my horse shipped up here. So my major hobby is on hold.
I just feel alone. Even before the move I felt this way. Like I have built a wall to get away. He is a kind sweet man and deserves so much more than what I am giving him. He never gets upset he just gives my space. But when I do try to talk about it he just sits that. I am so confused...
I wonder if I am just being a brat and it is something everyone goes through. Any advice would be great. I am just tired of feeling alone.
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