I think you have two problems in your marriage but not the ones you expressed.
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I do try to talk about it he just sits that. I am so confused...
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I would say he needs help communicating better with you, and you need to find a way to help him do that. It sounds so much easy to say then do.
For the other issue I think you #1 and #2 problems are connected. Your marriage has supported him so far. You moved for him, he got a promotion, and you fear he will not have the time for you yet you have no passion for him.
Things are good for him, he has control while you have very little even for hobbies to do. I don't think he meant to trap you without friends, family, hobbies or a job but in a way he did. Honestly review yourself to see if the lack of sex might stem from resentment.
draconis