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SFrost · 05-14-2008, 01:48 AM

I see what you are saying. But, it was really me who pushed for him to go for the job and move. I have lived away from my family since I was 18. I was very unhappy where we were. I am closer to my family now (7 hours). So I am happy about that. And I have never really had many friends. (which is part of the problem i believe. The few I have tend to be "toxic" types. Like telling me since he works all the time he will cheat on me with coworkers. He is more devoted and professional than that.)And the intamacy issues were existant before the move. So I don't think I resent him.
The communication is an issue. I feel like the same conversations are had over and over and nothing ever gets solved. How can i help him? You are right there. It is a HUGE issue.

05-14-2008, 01:48 AM	#3 (permalink)
SFrost Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 3	Re: Newly Wed, please help! I see what you are saying. But, it was really me who pushed for him to go for the job and move. I have lived away from my family since I was 18. I was very unhappy where we were. I am closer to my family now (7 hours). So I am happy about that. And I have never really had many friends. (which is part of the problem i believe. The few I have tend to be "toxic" types. Like telling me since he works all the time he will cheat on me with coworkers. He is more devoted and professional than that.)And the intamacy issues were existant before the move. So I don't think I resent him. The communication is an issue. I feel like the same conversations are had over and over and nothing ever gets solved. How can i help him? You are right there. It is a HUGE issue.