Aristotle

I need love, I need to release my daily stresses, I need to feel my wife underneath me so I can feel safe, I need to smell my wife's neck to feel at home, I need to hear my wife's moan to get that inner calmness, like listening to classical music.... but we move to her heartbeat, like jazz music. I need to feel her acceptance, her wants, her desires... I need sex.

That's all part of it for me, I would never cheat but if you made sex only physical I'd rather be alone and with a hooker. Men, like women, are also needy and a lot women are too selfish to ever understand, everything your great husband provides that gives you your inner peace and complacency, he needs as well.