bhappy3

I would have to agree with pigpen. Of course from your point of view there is nothing wrong with you. But maybe from her point of view there is. Definitely pick up that book as mentioned by swedish to give you some great insight. Maybe you're just not interacting with her in a way that she comprehends.

Another thing that I try to do with everyone I speak with is never ever to place the blame on them. Even if it was clearly their misunderstanding, I will still say something to the effect that I mustn't have explained good enough, and not well, you didn't understand that. That will automatically throw up walls of defenses b/c in a way you're attacking them, or at least that's how it is perceived.

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