carmaenforcer

Hello martino
I am a man with a woman that has intimacy issues with "ME" (not her co-workers or friends so much) and I have noticed from reading others posts, that this is a common problem.
On this and other relationship web sites I see a pattern that is a little sobering and disturbing to me.
Most women simply do not take care of their men sexually for countless reasons that would have us pandering or jumping through hoops for sex and most women don't see anything wrong with this.

I am not even married 3 years and have been put emotionally through the ringer because of this issue.

I have come to the conclusion that "getting it somewhere else" is the only way to resolve this issue, not fix the problem, but simply resolve the issue. Your Wife will probably still try to play this game for the rest of her life, but the issue will be a non-issue if you just take her out of the equation.

I had been teetering back and forth on actually going through with it myself for reasons of conscience and morals feeling like I was a bad person for even thinking such things. The grim reality is that unless I take care of myself or have someone else satisfy my sexual needs, I will just be tortured by my Wife for the rest of my life. I am not cool with that and so will soon be cheating on my Wife, in search of something that she should be giving me. Don't feel too bad about it though, because they would and probably will do it to us, if the circumstances are right.

Don't agree with me or don't believe me , go ahead and neglect your womans needs and see how far you get.

I hope you find a different solution than the one I've devised but either way, I wish you luck and strength.