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Originally Posted by PDJOVER
Swedish, thanks again. In answer to a prior question, it is a full blown affair. My W claims that nothing happened until she was sure that the marriage was over. She is moving out this weekend. We told my 9 year old S last night. The OM works at my S's school, but luckily he had surgery and will be out the rest of the year. He had been going up to my S and having talks with him every day at school. I believe trying to make inroads towards his affection. It hurt to hear every day, but I did take the high road. I supported my W during both talks. I did share with my D, that while I thought he was a nice man, I didn't currently have much respect for him.
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I'm sorry to hear that. In that case, I think you said the right thing to her. I think it is a selfish move on their part to let the kids in on their relationship so early on. There is a HUGE chance that the relationship will not work out and the kids have enough on their plate already (as do you). Awesome how you are handling this...keep pushing forward because all of the results are on the scale, in the mirror and in the eyes of those kids every day you continue to do right by them...and whip a glass against the wall if you need to when no one else is around...you are going to come out of this on top
