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SFrost · 05-14-2008, 12:16 PM

I thought about everything much more. And maybe there is some resentment becasue he is going out and learning new things with work and I am home. (I would say I just wish it was me too!) But not having my horse is a HUGE bummer. He is my release.
So...last night I did apply for almost 20 jobs. Maybe I'll get one of those. I will keep up the search. And try to stay busy until then.
I also know that he feels a lack of love. So I made his lunch and let a sewwt note in it. It is not big, but a start.
I wish I could go meet him for lunch, but as of now we only have one car and need to save on gas. BUt we will commute together when I do get a job. If it is close enough I will try to join him for it.
And the idea about solving my own problems is right. I made a list of what I can do on my own and what I need his input for. I will visit those issues later, once things are calmer.
There is a small age gap. I am 23 he is 26.
Thanks for the great advice! I will work hard to but it to good use!

05-14-2008, 12:16 PM	#8 (permalink)
SFrost Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 3	Re: Newly Wed, please help! I thought about everything much more. And maybe there is some resentment becasue he is going out and learning new things with work and I am home. (I would say I just wish it was me too!) But not having my horse is a HUGE bummer. He is my release. So...last night I did apply for almost 20 jobs. Maybe I'll get one of those. I will keep up the search. And try to stay busy until then. I also know that he feels a lack of love. So I made his lunch and let a sewwt note in it. It is not big, but a start. I wish I could go meet him for lunch, but as of now we only have one car and need to save on gas. BUt we will commute together when I do get a job. If it is close enough I will try to join him for it. And the idea about solving my own problems is right. I made a list of what I can do on my own and what I need his input for. I will visit those issues later, once things are calmer. There is a small age gap. I am 23 he is 26. Thanks for the great advice! I will work hard to but it to good use!