martino

I understand where you are coming from, and damn two years of marriage is too soon for these problems. Many women don't undertand that men need it, where they may only like it. I like to quote Dennis Miller who said that if women wanted to control this planet, all they would have to do is stop putting out for 30 days!

Although this doesn't help you i'll say that my situation isn't as dire as your's, actually now at almost 36 years old i'm more interested in quality and lengthy connected sex, versus a semi uncomfortable roll in the sheets with some girl I don't even know although I know that can be fun as well. I get laid plenty often, (wife that is) but it's the quality that concerns me.

I would at least sit down with her and tell her how you feel, and that you feel like you most likely will at some point cheat if things don't change very soon. That way she has been fully warned and doing this should ease your conscience. She might almost challenge you to, she might ask for a divorce, she might go find a boyfriend, you don't know what will happen but at least again she's been warned.

One thing i've learned with age is that i'm very careful about when I hit her up, if she worked all day, cooked dinner, get the kid to bed then after that probably won't be great. Look for daytime or morning if possible when energy is highest. Good luck!