he decided maybe I wasnt trying enough so on mothers day early morning he told me he found someone else and was done working on our marriage.
Why not throw all of your STBXH's cr*p back in his face?'
Nursemama: "I was considering naming MY son after his sperm donor, but then I 'decided maybe I wasn't trying enough'
to give him a meaningful name so on Mother's Day
I found another name and I'm 'done working on'
MY son's name."
He says him being with another woman should have nothing to do with naming of child...and the childs name shouldnt be decided out of emotion.
Nursemama: "You're right, you being with another woman should have nothing to do with naming of child
, just as MY being with you IN THE PAST should have nothing to do with naming of child
. Again, you're right; the child's name shouldn't be decided out of emotion. I'm afraid naming him after you WOULD be based purely on emotion on YOUR part
. I guess when YOU can give birth to YOUR OWN SON, then YOU can name him whatever you please...without emotion, of course!"
"I have a beautiful name picked out for MY son. You can read it on his birth certificate when you sign it."
Then pick a name YOU like, keep it to yourself, make sure STBXH is not allowed in your delivery room (shouldn't be hard, you're the mama in labor and they want to keep you calm; since you're divorcing him...shouldn't be hard for hospital staff to comprehend), make sure your entire delivery team KNOWS that your STBXH dumped you at 6 months pregnant ON MOTHER'S DAY and that YOU and YOU ALONE will be naming your son (your STBXH is NOT to have ANY SAY on the birth certificate.) Trust me, they'll ALL be willing to help you out with putting the name YOU have chosen on his birth certificate. And, they might even be willing to let you snip a little more than just your son's umbilical cord (if you know what I mean!)