| | Re: Men: How important is the love component from your wife during sex?
i couldnt disagree more deejov . making love ? what is that supposed to be ? like in the movies or romance novels . the love i make with my wife happens every day in my words , my support , my devotion , my respect , my loyalty , and my support . i have sex with my wife because i am aroused by her , sex with her is fulfilling , fun , and exciting , and it turns me on just to be near her . if my wife " just did it " that would signify to me a major problem in our relationship . my wife no longer is aroused , turned on , and excited by me . which is something i would try to remedy as soon as it came to my attention . and to have pictures of his ex is most certainly disrespectful to his wife . how could he have respect for her when he desires his ex more than her ? the ex is not being used for sex , he is not having sex with her . his wife is the one being used for sex while he plays out his fantasy in his head .