juls

Low Self Esteem lies within the person casting judgements on others.

Yes porn "can" be a marriage destroyer if there is an addcited spouse. BUT porn can also be a good thing between two open and honest people married.

I get so sick of hearing how bad porn is. If the porn is not "replacing" (addcition) your intimacy(sex life) then the only other problem is that the offended person has is, they themselves have their own issues..and to project those issue's on to your spouse becuase "prettier girls" scare you is wrong..

I hate porn, I think it is fake and badly filmed. But that is the only reason..I spend more time during a porno picking out who has real ones or fake ones etc etc. Hubby enjoys it..But it has never "replaced" our sex life..

I will repeat..I feel this way about porn when it is NOT replacing your intimacy with your spouse, if it is thats a whole nother ball game..