I guess it depends on the level of trust and comfort of the spouse. Can you as the woman be comfortable with no fore play no after play, just a quick and rough 2-5 minutes bent over the couch or doggie.
Then continue your day with laughing and playing, eating, watching tv, and be ok with just having a fun quickie.
Not saying for it to be this all the time but every once in a while. All the time would be a prob for me.
yami ni madoishi awarena kage yo
hito o kizutsuke otoshimete
ts umi ni oboreshi go no tama
i ppen shinde miru?